Experienced Rookie Looking to Give Advice

This weekend will be our second, full weekend show camp where we learn as much as we can in two days. I knew going in that this wouldn’t be as intense as junior corps but it would still be hard work. In junior corps, you learn the bulk of your show in about two weeks. These days are long, hard, sometimes frustrating and intense, but you are so immersed in the program that you really don’t have distractions. And during the season we consistently make changes, add new features, and clean up work.

Senior corps is a bit different. It’s intense in a whole other way but equally frustrating. On a Wednesday night rehearsal, we learn a feature in about an hour or two and have one hour with do it together with the corps. Then we don’t see each other for another week. We have a show camp every other weekend which is where we learn the bulk of the show. By then, when I’m practicing at home, I’ve completely forgotten what was taught. I’m pretty sure there’s a better way to “work smarter not harder.”

(I’m talking from the color guard point of view. Brass members – aka Justin – might have a different opinion of how the horn/drum line work.)

I’m not saying my way is the right way for this group. But I do think we could take elements of this method and apply them to Wednesday night rehearsals to make our time more efficient.

We recently learned about 64 counts of flag work in about an hour (with drill). As we were running through it, none of it stuck. I had to look at other members who looked either a little confused as to what was coming next or as confused as me. It was a lot of work in a very short time and it wasn’t even hard! And by the time we got to ensemble, we could barely remember any of it! What a waste of time!

In my years of marching and teaching, I’ve learned it’s all about muscle memory. You can’t move on to the next phrase until you’ve taught your muscles how the flag needs to move. If not, it’ll be a hot mess. (Like I was on Wednesday night learning this flag phrase. And let’s face it, every other time learning work with this group.) What needs to happen is this:  teach the first phrase (in our case, it was an 8 count phrase), do it three to four times, more if needed. BUT here’s the key: at a slower tempo. Once the muscles have been programmed, then the tempo is increased.This doesn’t take much longer than say doing it 4 or 5 times at full tempo and having to explain the work each time. It’ll look better and you can check-point (clean it) along the way.

Once that’s firmed up, you move on to the next phrase at a slower tempo then bump up the tempo. Then guess what? You add the two phrases together at a slow tempo teaching the muscle’s how to bridge the two phrases together. And then you can take it up to tempo. This continues until the end of phrase is taught. Seems obvious, right?

Instead of plowing through a 64 count phrase frantically in an hour just to teach it and have us work on it later, this technique could be done in the same amount of time (or less!) and yield better results when we put it together with the corps. And we’ll actually remember it!

I’m sure I’m not the only one, but this would leave me less frustrated. I leave rehearsal almost every time extremely frustrated that I’m expected to practice the work at home. I have no issues practicing at home, but when I don’t remember the work in the first place, it was a completely wasted night for me. What’s to practice?

Since I’m considered a “rookie” they see me as inexperienced in the ways of MBI (Minnesota Brass Inc.) which is true. But methods in teaching equipment are nothing new and it would be nice if they would give this method a try. Let’s work smarter, not harder.

Culturally Influenced

Justin and I are very proud parents. People are constantly commenting on what a good boy Jules is, so well behaved and of course, cute. Yes, he has manners. Yes, he’s polite and sweet. But let me tell you about his sassy side.

When he’s not in the mood for me to be home from work (it happens), he’ll tell me “You go to work.” But this isn’t any regular demand. He does it “Indian style.”

This isn’t the sit cross-legged “Indian style.” I can only have Russell Peters show it. (Skip to 2:39 and go from there.) (Minor NSFW)

I can personally guarantee he has NOT seen Russell Peters, but we do hang around Indian people. And honestly, not enough to really impact his actions. But I guess what he does see is enough for him to do it. The head angle, the hands pointing away or twisting at me all the while saying “You go to work.”

Basically take Russell’s “Take it and go” and replace it with Jules saying “You go to work.” He’s got the movements down.

Honestly, I can’t take him seriously when he’s doing it. I want to laugh but when it’s a mean comment, I tell him how he’s hurting my feelings. But really, it’s hilarious.

He also does the smug move. The one where he makes a comment then closes his eyes when he’s being smug. (Ala South Park – and I can also guarantee he doesn’t watch South Park. It’s Thomas all the time at our house.)

I guess you could say we’re doing our job getting him out in the world to experience various cultures – except smugness is not a culture.

MBI and Me

When we first moved to Minnesota, we kicked around the idea of marching in Minnesota Brass, a senior Drum and Bugle Corps located in Minneapolis. We were childless, had the time and missed marching. But then we had Jules and the idea was pushed aside.

Fast forward 3 years – we now have a toddler who isn’t tied to me anymore and we’re both interested in doing it, so why not? We inquired about the 2012 season and we were welcomed at the open house. Since then, we’ve been going to Wednesday night rehearsals and at this point, have committed to marching this summer.

Sounds like it could be fun, but I’m not really excited. For one, rehearsals are still very basic – lots of fundamentals and tosses I haven’t done in years, all of which I need to brush up on but it gets boring when there isn’t anything new to learn. We’ve learned one fun, short flag routine and that gave me hope I’ll enjoy the summer. But I still get angry. Angry that I can’t do these things easily anymore. As a past instructor, I’m angry that people talk excessively during rehearsal. I’m frustrated that I’m not getting corrected as I should be. I’m excited when something does come back and I can do it. But then I’m angry at myself again because I’m sure it looked terrible and I’m slow to pick it up. I’m embarrassed that I’m one of the oldest members of the group and yet I have difficulty getting some of the work down. I go through so many emotions during rehearsal that I’m questioning my decision to participate and want to quit, but then I think how that would impact the group.

The schedule sounds easy: one night a week and every other weekend camp. But with a child at home, I’m worried I’ll never see him. I stress over making sure he’s taken care of while we do this. I stress over a full summer schedule, taking vacation days for shows and just getting regular life coordinated with marching. So it’s not as simple as it sounds.

I hope once we start to learn the show and that I’m not glossed over at rehearsal, I’ll have a better time. But right now – I’m just not feeling it.

(As a side note: When I went to Phantom Regiment, I was very excited to audition and march. While I wasn’t at the top of my skill set yet (after one year at Regiment, I was exceedingly better) I had determination, but I was young and had no real responsibilities. However, I struggled my first year. I was terrible. I had a terrible time on tour and wanted to go home. But I stuck it out and ended my first year with a bang and couldn’t wait to come back. Which I did!

All I can do is try my hardest this time around and hope this turns out to be the same situation.)

Jules in Bullet Points

I’ve been terrible about documenting what Jules is up to since the end of his monthly posts. So here’s a post dedicated just to him and what he’s up to.

-When he’s supposed to be sleeping, he’s usually singing the ABC song, Peanut Butter Jelly Time, and has a conversation with Lamby. If you ask him to sing, he won’t. So I enjoy his nighttime routine of singing in bed (or when he’s playing or in the tub).

-He follows statements up with questions. For example: “Lamby has eye. Can you talk to Lamby?” or “I have trains. Do you like trains?” Or he’ll follow up a statement with “Buuuuuut…” It’s great to see how clever he is at constructing sentences.

-He’s obsessed by loud things. He goes off on long winded tangents about smoke alarms, tornado sirens, train horns, and train whistles. It’s cute until you hear what he’s actually saying, then it’s sad how much they terrify him. We’re working on getting him comfortable and that loud noises have a purpose. Library books help.

-When you talk to him on the phone and ask him how he’s doing, he always says he’s good. Always. Then he might go into something about how he couldn’t do something because he was sad. He knows how to have a pity party.

-He likes Mac ‘n Cheese cold.

-His favorite toy is a pink stroller we got him for Christmas. He loads it up with cars or whatever he’s hauling and runs from room to room.

-His standard greeting: “Hello mommy, hello! How are you doing?” whenever I come home or talk to him on the phone.

Quick list of funny sayings:
-Drum Quarters = Drum Corps
-Grocery Carpet = Grocery Cart
-Would that be perfect?
-Can I see pictures on your ipod phone?
-We’re best friends!

I should really do a monthly post on him. He’s always doing or saying something new. While sassy and a challenge at times, he’s really a good boy. 

It’s Groundhog Day…again

I love that movie. Everyday feels like Groundhog Day here. Just the same thing over and over again. But lets talk about some of the new things happening around the house – bullet point style:

- After 3 years of Justin participating in the Overnight Website Challenge, I finally decided to join him. I applied for a team and was accepted! I’m no developer, but I can add content like no ones business. So that’s what I’ll be doing in March.

- Justin and I are attempting to relive our days of Drum Corps. We’re auditioning for Minnesota Brass – an all ages drum corps. This time he’ll be my seat partner!

- Jules continues to be our loving, sweet, son who bosses us around by saying, “You come to my room to play trains wif me.” His new question is, “Is that you mommy?”

- Scully is still around and terrified of Jules who loves to chase her. But he also asks her to be his “best friend” – he’s tender like that.

- We’ve had the strangest winter in Minnesota. I don’t think we had any snow in January and if we did, it melted because we’ve been in the 40′s. Except today. It’s 5 degrees out right now. Yes, it’s as cold as it sounds. I’m hoping it just means we’ll have a longer spring and a hot summer. If not, I don’t think Justin will want to continue to live here.

- Justin’s into bikes, beer, and baby’s. Let’s just say he’s attempting to make one of each.

- We knew Jules would be like us in many ways, but we didn’t take into consideration some of the things we didn’t want to pass to him. Talking in his sleep, bad skin, hard breathing when he’s watching t.v. or concentrating on something, and biting his nails. These annoying little habits are sure to get worse.

- And speaking of Jules, he’s terrified of loud noises. I’ve read about many who have dealt with kids and sensitivity to things like sounds or new situations or foods – and I should take comfort that these sensitivities will lessen and even pass with age. But man this is tough. He remembers instances of loud noises, where he was when they happened and he obsesses over it.

We were heading out to Utah over Thanksgiving break and we stopped at my office to do some last minute work. It was first thing in the morning so hardly anyone was there. My boss and I were chatting, Jules was sitting at the table and Justin was in the hall on the phone. Suddenly, the building fire alarm went off. There was no mention of a drill so this was the real thing. When the alarm goes off all the doors automatically shut and when that happened, along with the startling noise, Jules FLIPPED the F out. I had to grab him and bolt out of the building and reassure him it wouldn’t happen again (of course, how the hell am I supposed to know that?). He talked about that for days.

I had lunch with him and Justin this week and we went to my building after lunch and he immediately panicked and started babbling about the alarm and doors closing and he how hated my work. I felt terrible for him when he started crying. It’ll be a long time before I can bring him back.

He’s constantly asking “What’s that noise?” when he hears something he’s never heard. Sometimes it’s just a question other times you can tell he’s worried. All we can do is reassure him. I hope this passes.

- And speaking of obsessing: I’m all over Adele right now. Isn’t that voice amazing? If I was in London like someone I know, I’d totally go to every show she was doing. Seriously, amazing.

Hilarious

Upgrade

He’s a tiny little bossy pants who now has a “big boy” bed. We purchased this bed well before Christmas and never had time to set his room up. It also meant we needed to move his chair somewhere else. And at the time, the somewhere else was where the Christmas tree lived.

Before:

After:

Before:

After:

He likes it. He especially likes to push the bed away from the wall and hangout (and sometimes sleep) on the floor between the wall and bed.

And just for fun, here’s Jules who refuses to look at the camera but still smiles (from Christmas Eve).

Why Hello There!

I’m going to pretend November didn’t happen. And according to my blog, it looks like nothing happened.

Moving on…

Christmas last year was fun with an 18 month-old. But I’d like to take that back. Christmas with a 2 and 1/2 year-old is fun. Sure, he’s sassy and sometimes naughty, but he’s really into the magic that is Christmas. I set him up with his own decorated tree in his room and Justin put a little train set around the base. He loves it! And he loves to show it to people who come over. It’s so much fun to see him so excited.

He happily obliges with our traditions of cutting down a Christmas tree in the freezing cold, standing outside in the freezing cold for a 10 minute parade, and soon, he’ll participate in Christmas Eve fondue. I can picture it now – all bread and cheese for dinner and peppermint ice cream for dessert. It’s Christmas, why fight it?

He’s not really sure about the purpose of Santa – and we’re fine with that. That’s a conversation Justin and I need to have because our nieces and nephews were told from the beginning there is no Santa. (Not sure what to think of that…)

I’m not doing a whole lot of handmade items this year, just a few things for various people. So far it hasn’t been stressful. But ask me next week when I get back from a conference and realize my last weekend to get stuff done is gone. Hello Amazon!

Work was very generous with holiday time off. They gave us 5 days between Christmas and New Years. So that means I only had to take two days off to get 12 days. It’s much needed for a lot of employees; we’ve been busy. My co-worker resigned and moved back to his home state which left me doing the work of two people. Needless to say, some items have been put on the back burner until they hire a replacement. I’m patiently waiting for that replacement to show up in January. It’ll be a New Year’s miracle!